Thursday, August 22, 2013

Showered with love

What a fun past few days!!  And most of the days have been amazing and full of family time!  Last Saturday was my first baby shower for Auri.  and WOW are we overwhelmed and blessed with the generosity of our special families.  Between Jonathan and I, we have an extremely large, extended family and seriously words can not express how grateful we are to be a part of such heart-warming, thoughtful people.
The morning of the shower started off strange for me.  I had an internal anxiety and excitement of seeing my dear family.  But more importantly, the thought of celebrating the upcoming arrival of our Son.  I mean, we are really having a baby!! We are really about to be parents.  We are really about to be solely responsible for another human being.  We really need to get with it on the nursery! (this isn't my main concern, but kinda).  Whoa!
So anyway,  Saturday morning, I'm flooded with emotions that I almost can't control.  I am praying outloud to the good Lord on my way to the shower about all of these worries and thoughts.  Mostly I didn't want them to consume my day, but my attitude was almost a selfish one and I needed to be put in my place.  And just like that, I feel a sense of relief and comfort.

Our baby boy is loved SO much already, and it is quite an overwhelming feeling.  The next few pictures are just a few snap shots from the day.  I had forgotten how much fun opening presents was! :) and exhausting!! haha, but seriously we received an abundant of necessary items to prepare for Auri's arrival and I am beyond grateful.


My Amazing Hostesses!! 




Although we weren't able to get everyone in pictures... I was able to get at least most of everyone!!

My beautiful ladies of Thomas family (Mama's side)


The Walsh ladies! 

And then the Scriber crew, minus a few!

I have more pictures from the shower if you are interested. Click here to take you directly to the link https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.10100262408797958.1073741825.49703658&type=1&l=a189f49e9f 


Once again, Jonathan and I feel so blessed to such loving and supportive families.  
The fun doesn't stop here though!  We have some things planned for the upcoming weeks. One being maternity photos, and another baby shower hosted by a few of my awesome friends!  Before we know it, we will be welcoming our son into this great big world. 

Update on Mama:
I know several of you have continued to pray for Mom, and frequently ask how she is doing, and on behalf of our family, Thank you so much!! She is doing great!  The burden of cancer is still here, but she has not let it slow her down.  She isn't able to receive any additional chemotherapy, which has been discouraging for her.  But the good news is, she is embracing each day and living the life God has called her for.  One of the side effects of her tumor, and chemo, has been the loss of hearing.  A few weeks ago, she was only able to hear out of her right ear with only about 30% capacity.  This has been a huge discomfort for her, for it was extremely difficult for her to have conversations with people, especially in a crowded area.  I have prayed fervently for her to feel some sort of relief.  Not even really knowing what relief I was praying for, I just knew she needed a boost of confidence.  Last Thursday morning, something miraculous happened. She literally woke up and just like that, she could hear!! It isn't completely restored, but it is certainly enough for her to comfortably have conversations, and not even wear a hearing device.  She is just thrilled!! and I am so happy she is happy!  This may sound like such a petty milestone, but for us who see and talk to her everyday, this is huge.  She faces other daily challenges, but this has definitely given her a lift in her spirits.  I ask for continued prayers for Mama.  For Daddy, who is the greatest caregiver in the world.  And for continued progress in her situation.  We love her so very much, and is truly an inspiration to so many of us.  As of now, she is staying busy, enjoying their new home!  She has been so great in assisting me throughout my pregnancy; giving me advice, telling me stories, and just being there whenever Jonathan can't quite handle my hormones :)  

That's all for now.  Stay tuned! 

Friday, August 9, 2013

Taking it easy

Well, I'm almost 30 weeks! Time is seriously going by so fast! It's funny how all the sudden my life is based on weeks, but none the less, every single week is important.  I am learning that I am surely not moving as quickly as I used to.  I am extremely fast walker, almost as if I'm in a hurry everywhere I go.  However, this pregnancy has forced me to take it down a notch.  Whereas it used to take me 16 minutes to run 2 miles, it now takes me 16 minutes to walk 1 mile! But moving at a slower pace has allowed me to appreciate the physical exercise, thanking God for his beautiful blessings one step at a time.

About 4 weeks ago I developed an excruciating back pain.  Seriously, the worst pain I have ever felt, almost paralyzing in a sense that I literally could not take another step without collapsing.  At 25 weeks I had already began "the waddle" so many pregnant women only have in their last couple weeks of pregnancy.  Walking was painful, sleeping was painful. EVERYTHING was painful.  Jonathan was worried something wasn't right, so off I went to the Chiropractor.  I had never experienced this type of service before, and wasn't even real sure of what I thought about the practice.  But at this point I was willing to try anything. After getting approval from my doctor, I began seeing a local chiropractor.  And let me tell you folks, I am a believer in the chiropractic services!! WOW, I am amazed at how different and normal I feel.  It took a few days for the adjustment to settle in.  And don't get me wrong, the sessions were almost more painful than my actual pain, but I survived.  I am back in the game and feeling wonderful!

Last week was the dreaded glucose test.  I went in with no worries, drank my little orange drink (I seriously could have gone for another round, pretty tasty!) and off we went for the Doctor's visit.  The appointment went very smooth, we were able to see our litte Auri again and Wow is he is getting so big! 3 pounds already!  So funny watching him in there, wondering what he's up to.  After our appointment, we registered for labor and delivery at St. Francis.  Whew, just checking things off the list!
Speaking of checking things off the list... We finally bought a crib!  The room is slowly beginning to look like a nursery!  We searched for many weeks to find "the crib" and we just couldn't find exactly what we wanted.  We stumbled across a furniture store in Monroe and made the big purchase! We paid a little more than I anticipated, but it is absolutely perfect!

So the next couple days were a little discouraging.  My doctor's nurse called to tell me I didn't pass my glucose test, and I am possibly at risk for gestational diabetes.  I'm not sure why I was so surprised, but it certainly wasn't expected and it freaked me out a bit.  I went in the next day for the 3-hour extensive glucose testing, which isn't 3 hours at all.  Try 5 hours! Anyway, it was not a fun day.  So this lady loves to eat, even when I'm not pregnant... so, not being able to eat or even have a sip of water for an 18 hour span was very difficult.  My sweet husband waited with me for at least one of the hours in between lab work.  The clinic graciously gave me a room to rest instead of sitting uncomfortably in the waiting room.
Anyway, results came back and no diabetes for me!  But don't you worry, whatever that was, was a wake-up call for me.  I am certainly going to take it easy on the sugar and carbs.  Healthy Mama, healthy baby, right?!  I was so worried that all my selfish eating, mainly the ice cream I consume every night, would be potentially harmful to the baby.
I am feeling Auri move all the time now, and it is such a sweet, breath-taking, happy feeling. One day I'll feel him on my far right side, another day he is all up in my ribs.  Yesterday was a first, in that I could literally feel him on both sides of my belly.  Perhaps we have a dancer with quick feet with his hands up in the air.  I am far-enough in my pregnancy to "count kicks" to make sure his movement is healthy and normal.  So far, so good!
I have begun writing a journal to Auri about my experience and love for him.  I am uncontrollably in love with him already, and I can't imagine knowing how much the love can grow.  Jonathan and I have strongly enjoyed our time together during this pregnancy.  God has blessed us immensely, and I am truly grateful for my growing family.
We have a big weekend ahead of us... Our first baby shower!  We have family from both my side and Jonathan's side coming in town and I am SO excited to see our big, happy families!